Risky sex, what are your stories?

Aniraco · 8 months

Pere Lachaise cemetery in Paris.

On a high up rock in the middle of a river in a state park...there was no one there at the time, but it is close to the road and usually quite busy so it could have changed at any second.

And once against his wide open apartment door. It was the first floor, where anyone living in the building would have to pass by to get home...

bloomie107 · 1 year

Exactly.

The pervading notion on reddit that gonewilders (and sometimes women in general) are attention-hungry/competitive/mean-spirited is what led me to stop posting. There are lots of comments in this thread that make sweeping speculations about a gonewilder's motives. I think people like compliments. They like to feel sexy and comfortable in their own bodies. I don't think being comfortable with that aspect about one's self makes that person an attention hungry "camwhore."

Gonewild girls are just girls. There are lots of reasons one might post. I know I get a thrill from being desired by others the same way that everyone else enjoys being desired. It's just that I was willing to celebrate and embrace that actively instead of fidgeting awkwardly within a double standard that says women should be confident and sexy but never ever know it about themselves.

underthewater · 1 year

haha thanks! I'm glad I'm not crazy for feeling that we GW women are generally united/respectful/encouraging/positive/etc.

And when I said I was sometimes intimidated by the bodies of other women on this site, I was definitely including you. You may be just starting to post here but you're gorgeous. REDHEADS UNITE.

underthewater · 1 year

AH! I posted a reply and it disappeared!

Anyway, sorry you had to bare the brunt of my rant gone astray. It's a frustration that has been brewing in me lately so I think I am hypersensitive to it for the time being. I agree about jealousy being a key element of what makes people people. I just resent the sentiment that it is something women specifically can't recognize in themselves and keep in check. Especially where pictures of my naked butt are concerned haha.

But that wasn't what you meant (in fact, you were saying nearly the opposite) so nevermind. Okay, backpeddling efforts complete :)

underthewater · 1 year

Ah, I see. I guess I see it a lot more in reference to women downvoting women and my rant went astray. Sorry about that :)

I agree that jealousy is certainly a key element to human nature. I guess I just have a little resentment for the sentiment I see here (both in GW and on reddit in general) sometimes that suggests that women specifically can't recognize it or keep it in check. Especially when I am posting pictures of my naked butt for the gratification of the community haha.

But none of this applies in your case. Okay. Backpeddling complete :)

underthewater · 1 year

Do you really think that is what it is? (I ask this genuinely and not...bitchily...)

I ask because I see this attitude from time to time about the women of GW downvoting out of jealousy, and it really gets to me. Maybe I am in the minority, but while I sometimes perhaps take it a little personally that someone gets more/more enthusiastic feedback or more upvotes than I do, or that I get less, I NEVER downvote anyone.

Maybe I am looking at this the wrong way, and if so, set me straight, but I get a little offended that the men of GW will in one breath shower women with all this phrase about they're bodies, and in the next sell them up the river as immature, spiteful children. It's condescending and hurtful and makes me think I might have made a mistake in joining such a community.

Again, unless I am in the minority here, it isn't as if it isn't obvious that the same person that said I was the hottest thing on GW didn't say the same thing to the last girl whose pictures he "enjoyed."

Which isn't to say I doubt his sincerity or devalue it, but I sometimes feel that the women on this site deserve a little more credit in the "down to earth" department.

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Haha let's! I use Frizz Ease shampoo and John Frieda's (sp?) conditioner for red hair (who knows what effect it actually has beyond smelling nice). I also use the Frizz ease "curl boosting" mousse after I get out of the shower and before I wrap my hair in a towel. I never brush my hair and only ever rake through it (with a wide-toothed comb) in the shower when it's soaking wet. I try not to touch it as it dries.

So....I don't know how special any of that is. What might be unique is that I don't shampoo every time I wash it. I always condition but shampoo maybe once every several washes. I find that shampoo leaves it dried out and frizzy.

You have any tips?

nope_not_telling · 1 year

I get that a lot actually.

nope_not_telling · 1 year

This made me smile :)

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Voyeuristic was exactly what I was going for! :)

Like looking through a hole in a wall or a keyhole or something. Thanks!

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Link to the first post :)

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Sports photography, predominantly. Although I am sure it has other uses.

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Ah yes. Mine brackets. Which is different than multiple exposures, I realize. But I've never used the multi-shot function. Don't do enough stop-action to bother. Although, I believe my camera will only do multiples of three.

nope_not_telling · 1 year

multiple picture setting? I just took a whole bunch of stills and then cut-and-pasted them together in Paint. No "settings" involved but the shower. Do what you can with what you've got, right?

nope_not_telling · 1 year

I am trying to post a second set but Imgur just keeps refreshing from the loading to the "upload an image" page :(

ohkeith · 1 year

Ah! I remember seeing the first post and then missed the 2nd session. Reddit wont let me open either link! When I click on it, it just refreshes the page...arghhh.

but it looks really great in the thumbnail :)

platte89 · 1 year

Funny you should ask. I've never been paid to model naked, but I do take naked pictures of myself and post them on reddit!

incelmanlate20s · 1 year

Hmmm...well your body is fantastic so it can't be that. I'd imagine it has something to do with the confidence-level you put across.

Ever tried OKCupid or Plenty of Fish? Maybe interacting with people in that format before meeting them in person would help you get a handle on your communication habits (good or bad) and zero in. Plus, you go into each date hopefully having a better sense of the person, which might make you more comfortable...all of this assuming, of course, that confidence and pro-activity are the issue.

Maybe this is shallow, but that site certainly helped my confidence both in terms of my appearance and generally feeling "different."

nope_not_telling · 1 year

haha then we did not, in fact, date :)

ohsolonely · 1 year

I like the dress. Sort of want one. Where's it from?

nope_not_telling · 1 year

...and the "having regular oral sex standpoint" is the one with which I most readily seek to identify.

nope_not_telling · 1 year

Maybe one or two. I am more of a daywalker, though.

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