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The Latest Diablo 3 Class by tarabluhin gaming

[–]haabda 0 points1 point ago

First world problems.

Moody's flattens Wall Street, Rackspace soars, and does Apple have an iPad Mini? by JosephHMRin investing

[–]haabda 8 points9 points ago

The iPad Mini is called the iPod touch.

I'm 19 and want to know, is it weird that I still buy Toys and watch Cartoons? by AppleTStudioin AskReddit

[–]haabda 1 point2 points ago

No. You are not weird. Don't let the kid inside of you grow up.

how i feel as a christian on reddit by that_one_christianin funny

[–]haabda 1 point2 points ago

AMEN!

Bought a pharmaceutical stock that had big news. I'm up 25% already, any reason to hold out, or should I sell now? by Kromin investing

[–]haabda 2 points3 points ago

Take your profits now. AMLN will start a run-down soon.

I was a late adopted child. AMA by HearingSignerin IAmA

[–]haabda 1 point2 points ago

I just adopted a 14-year-old boy in November. It is VERY challenging. You are getting a child who already has his/her basic personality set. You can help them to make better choices but you need to be ready to accept them as they are.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

I had zero prior experience with RAD. It has been quite a learning experience.

What is your "uh-oh" moment while fixing a computer by rbevansin AskReddit

[–]haabda 12 points13 points ago

I was replacing an old AT power supply on my computer. Back then, I would leave the computer plugged in so I would have a ground. I left the computer plugged in not thinking about the fact I was working on a POWER SUPPLY. While trying to gently pull the wire attached to the power button, the wire contacted the metal case which I was holding with my other hand (uh-oh). The electricity caused me to grip the case and metal pliers I was holding.

My cousin just sat there watching me being electrocuted. It took very much willpower to overcome the electricity forcing the muscles in my hands to contract. After about 10 seconds I practically threw the computer across the room.

That electricity hurt.

These 61 Senators are refusing to meet with their constituents before the critical Jan 24 vote on PIPA/SOPA. Oh Reddit, can you call them? by fightforthefuturein politics

[–]haabda 0 points1 point ago

Phone calls to both MS senators have been placed. Both offices were very courteous and promised to pass along my opposition to the bill.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 1 point2 points ago

He is good and keeps getting better. His dream is to be a professional boarder.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

It is very hard for a single person to adopt, at least in my community.

There are stories of singles adopting all over the country. You can do it, but be prepared for it to be a long and difficult journey.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

Ignore the first "No" response. It is very difficult for those with ODD not to to say "no". It is a compulsion to oppose and defy. As they learn to work with their disorder, they will comply within a reasonable amount of time but still likely tell you "no".

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

So far they haven't been difficult at all.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

Having never experienced drugs, wrong crowd, or abuse, I am unable to truly relate to him in regards to those experiences.

My situation is like that of any biological parent. He is my son. Legally he has the same rights as a biological child, including inheritance rights. Adopting him was making a life-long commitment to him to be his father.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 1 point2 points ago

To help people pronounce my handle correctly. It used to be "Habda" but people would say the "Ha" part like the "Ha" in "Have". The extra a makes people read and pronounce it correctly. The "Haa" makes people pronounce it like "Ah". Like Hahbda. My name isn't Hahbda because I don't like the way it looks. :)

Look what landed at our FBO... by jaypaulstrongin aviation

[–]haabda 1 point2 points ago

Thanks for reminding me I have to re-register my plane! I missed the August - October 2011 window but my registration doesn't expire until June 2012. Hopefully mailing it in today will allow the new registration to arrive in time.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 2 points3 points ago

He proudly introduces me as his Dad. The adoption may be recent but he has been living with me for over 14 months.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

My life went from being about me to being about him. Suddenly every decision I make includes thoughts of how it will affect my son.

I still persue my own interests, b ut now his needs come first.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

I have not come across anyone who has told me anything negative about adopting my son.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

When you decide to adopt, your life becomes an open book. They question your neighboors, coworkers, and friends. You must be financially stable and have a clean background.

I did not request a white child. My first foster child was latino.

I didn't know for sure I would adopt him, but they wanted to know it was a high probability.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 2 points3 points ago

I have already found the work of Dr. Purvis. She is amazing.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 1 point2 points ago

At his age and with his needs, there was much financial support from the state to ease the burden of adoption. I wwas lucky to find a lawyer to help with the adoption pro bono.

IAMA single man who recently adopted a 14-year-old "emotionally disturbed" boy. AMAA by haabdain IAmA

[–]haabda[S] 0 points1 point ago

When he is in trouble, he will say anything he can think of in an attempt to hurt you with words. "I hate you" is one of the most minor things he has said in the heat of anger.

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