You know, that's close to where we were, I was working two bar jobs and going to school, he was depressed and using, staying home and alternating sleeping with drinking or puking. I dreamed about leaving him for a year before the catalyst. Is there a way you can talk to her family again? I'm not sure what advice I can give, except be strong, get rest, and drink lots of water. You need to be physically healthy to deal with all the mental stress. Keep me updated, maybe after the shock wears off I'll be ableto help you more.