I don't see how this proves that this church (or social club) is any more morally substantial than any gathering of people/friends/family who meet on a regular basis. I am a member of a club that is non-religious. I can't think of one person who would NOT give away a spare bike, invite my kids over to dinner, help me through a rough patch. The difference is that my people aren't doing it to win points with God, look good in front of their peers, or to avoid eternal torture. The one benefit my people have over the church is they don't have the excuse "I will pray for you". The people of the church will simply use this as a cop out if they don't want to help (which, let's be realistic, is a lot of the time). Ask her to name one morally superior thing a Christian person can do that a nonbeliever can't. It's impossible.

She really said that, "...nasty people don't come to church"? That is simply not true. There are good and bad people everywhere.

With the point she is making, I can't help but think of this...

http://tinyurl.com/bsyr2fz