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Obsessives: Soda Pop by Koronin videos

[–]Edwin_Quine -1 points0 points ago

U mad bro?

Hook: Oh there you are, Peter![Unintentional][Movie] (My first asmr experience) by civixier_in asmr

[–]Edwin_Quine 3 points4 points ago

Is it me or does that kid look like David Allen Grier?

Obsessives: Soda Pop by Koronin videos

[–]Edwin_Quine 9 points10 points ago

Obsessives: Soda Pop by Koronin videos

[–]Edwin_Quine 4 points5 points ago

When I went to LA, I visited this store because of this video!

http://imgur.com/nWB3z,zpbgI,MuHnn#1

AMA

X-post from GW. Hopefully that's ok. by NeuralSquirrelin Xsmall

[–]Edwin_Quine 0 points1 point ago

You are wonderful.

(Spoiler ASOS) Were you guys as emotionally compromised as I was with episode 8's Tyrion and Shae scene? by thrawn_2071in asoiaf

[–]Edwin_Quine 2 points3 points ago

If Ros had said "I am not Tyrion's beloved whore, Shae is." She would be a lot safer. So is she protecting Shae? Does she not know what is going on? Does she not know who Shae is?

Poor Jorah (Maybe Spoilers from S2E8?) by buckwheat202in gameofthrones

[–]Edwin_Quine 2 points3 points ago

KING IN THE FREINDZONE

So many freckles. by fuckhitlerin redheads

[–]Edwin_Quine 2 points3 points ago

Amanda Smith

I feel unloved, secondary, and completely lost. Help me. by peacebonein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine 2 points3 points ago

Let him know that you feel neglected and unloved. Let him know that you need more attention, love, and companionship. He, in fact, can get his mind around primary and secondary relationships. His intuitions about fairness are getting in the way of your happiness.

it is not unfair to say, "If you want to be in a polyamorous relationship with me you have to make sure I feel loved and respected."

I never understood the theist argument that in order to have any morality, you need god. by zulaikha_idrisin exmuslim

[–]Edwin_Quine 1 point2 points ago

If you are actually interested in a discussion of meta-ethics with someone who has a different view as you, I would be happy to discuss.

I never understood the theist argument that in order to have any morality, you need god. by zulaikha_idrisin exmuslim

[–]Edwin_Quine 1 point2 points ago

Not all atheists are moral relativists...

Most philosophers aren't moral relativists...

In a survey academic philosophers:

Meta-ethics: moral realism or moral anti-realism?

Accept or lean toward: moral realism 525 / 931 (56.3%)

Accept or lean toward: moral anti-realism 258 / 931 (27.7%)

Other 148 / 931 (15.8%)

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago

Very interesting analysis. What books to the polyfidelitous tribe tend to read? What books to the Ethical Slut tribe tend to read? (Obviously they read the eponymous Dossie Easton book.)

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago

If a polyamorous arrangement with a OPP works for him, and makes his partners happy, who are we to say that polyamory is not right for him?

The question is how much can examining a preference effect the preference. My visceral disgust reaction when encountering bodily effluvia is not something that will not disappear after examination. The million dollar question is: are some types of jealousy like this visceral disgust reaction.

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago

If you are prescribing suspending judgment. I would agree. Remaining agnostic on the issue is probably wise. The origins and malleability of our preferences are ethically relevant. So it is important to actually find out what the facts are.

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago

Please do not ignore salient distinctions.

A) Emotions that can be "reasoned" with.

B) Emotions that cannot be "reasoned" with.

Ought Implies Can: Ethical formula ascribed to Immanuel Kant, meaning that if an agent is morally obliged to perform a certain action he must logically be able to perform it.

If a preference exists and is ineluctable, we have no right to ignore it when creating our social arrangements.

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago*

Better analogy: I like vanilla sex. My partner likes vanilla sex and BDSM. So... we don't have BDSM sex because of my preference.

I like X

My partner likes X and Y

My partner doing Y bothers me

So we only do X.

This formula is applicable to both a an OPP and the BSDM example I just gave.

I don't even want an OPP, or think they are a good idea. I just think our arguments against them should stand up to scrutiny.

What techniques can someone do to become less jealous? by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 2 points3 points ago

For what it is worth: It really helps me when I focus on how much I care about my partner's happiness.

Give me your best arguments for AND against tolerating One Penis Policies in the polyamory community. by Edwin_Quinein polyamory

[–]Edwin_Quine[S] 0 points1 point ago

Suppose after rigorous study we found that this discomfort had nothing to do with the oppression of women, but rather was just a part of the suite of emotions he was born with. No matter how egalitarian his worldview, there remained this asymmetry in his preferences. What would you say to this person?

Some people might see jealousy as analogous to fear of airplanes. Given enough evidence about the safety in an airplane, one should be less afraid. If there is no danger, one shouldn't be afraid.

However, I am suggesting that some types of jealousy could be more analogous to disgust of feces. It is not clear to me that there is anything you could say to me that would make me not disgusted by feces.

Telling someone to change, when they cannot is both foolish and unethical.

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