How do you guys feel about how Disney portrays men and women? (I'm referring specifically to movies about Disney Princesses)
I've been a fan my whole life (girl here) and find the movies really enjoyable, but I've been stepping back and thinking about it a bit lately. I mean, think about it:
Snow White is attacked for her beauty and ultimately rescued by a man.
Aurora is also weak and must be rescued by a man.
Cinderella - surprise- also must be protected by a man.
I suppose it gets better as the years go by- like Belle is pretty independent... but still.
I know usually when people are analyzing the Disney movies, it's to analyze how they portray women and what it teaches the target audience- little kids, especially little girls- about what it means to be a woman. But I think the assumptions it makes about women are just as important as the assumptions it makes about men.
Look at it this way:
WOMEN: All you need to be is pretty. Nothing else matters. Oh, and by the way, pretty means = tall, impossibly slender, angelically beautiful, porcelain skin, long hair (usually blonde and always perfectly coiffed), preferably have some sort of "nice" but "useless" and "harmless" talent like singing, excessively passive and weak, and you must make every one jealous of you/be the talk of the town. Your smarts don't matter, your work ethic doesn't matter, your intentions don't matter.
So basically girls need to achieve an impossible standard of beauty in order to be accepted (and this idea is prevalent in American society from all angles of media, not just Disney).
MEN: What you want in life, ALL you want in life, is a pretty girl. Doesn't matter if she's in love with you, doesn't matter if she's smart or hard working. You just want a pretty girl to hang on your arm and be a trophy wife. You aren't important to the story (some of you don't even have names, Prince Charming! Because who you are isn't important!) The only thing that matters is that you're handsome, slim, strong, and (most importantly) royal (i.e., rich).
WHAT'S MORE:
So many disney songs take this up a notch.
I'm Wishing = I'm weak and pathetic and can't do anything to help myself, so I hope a man will come do a bunch of work to save me. In the meantime, I'll just sit on my ass and be pretty.
The only gifts that are seen fit to give to Aurora are beauty and song.
as one youtube commentor put it in Once Upon a Dream , Remember kids, it's totally okay to go off with random strangers, but only if they're hot.
Again with Cinderella, all females can do is wish. Wish and dream because females must be passive. So, A Wish is a Dream Your Heart Makes.
and so on.
But perhaps more relevant to you guys is a song like this, which says to boys and girls:
*It's not enough to take the one you love for granted. You must remind her or she'll be inclined to say, *
"How do I know he loves me?
How do I know he's mine?"
Does he leave a little note to tell you, you are on his mind?
Send you yellow flowers when the sky is gray?
He'll find a new way to show you, a little bit everyday.
That's how you know, that's how you know, he's your love.
How do I know he's mine?
Does he leave a little note to tell you, you are on his mind?
Send you yellow flowers when the sky is gray?
He'll find a new way to show you, a little bit everyday.
That's how you know, that's how you know, he's your love.
How do you know he's yours?
Does he take you out dancing just so he can hold you close?
Dedicate a song with words meant just for you?
That's how you know he's true
Because he'll wear your favorite color just so he can match your eyes.Or rent a private picnic by the fire glow.
His heart will be yours forever, something everyday will show
So, to have true love, men must go out of their way to please a woman, must spend (presumably) a fortune "proving" that they care, while all the woman does is sit back and be skeptical and freak out every time he does nothing and she expects him to.
It's not that I have any problem against men giving gifts or going out of their way in a relationship. It's sweet and thoughtful. But to think that that is a prerequisite for a man to earn his trophy wife.... everything about that is wrong. Gifts should be given from both sides because they care about each other, not because you have to prove something...
I mean, maybe I'm over analyzing this, but I grew up on disney and I thought this was normal. I would dream of my own prince, too. I'd sit back and wait until the day I'd be rescued and live happily after as the housewife to a rich man. Seriously.
What do you guys think of this? I want the male perspective.
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