Seriously, what do?
EDIT: Clarification around my relationship with my niece and some history on the car. This niece is the daughter of my wife's sister. We are very close to their family and do stuff together all the time. A couple weeks ago my sis in-law mentions they are looking for a car to give her. Now this particular car (a 1998 Monte Carlo) was given to my wife and I by her folks. For free. So we figure pass it on. At this point my sis in-law has seen the face book post and called me to ask if we want it back. My brother is 22 and he doesn't have a car, so she asked if we wanted to give it to him.
RESOLUTION: Ok, I decided to take my wife and I out of the equation entirely and let me sister in-law handle it. We did tell my niece we were upset that she wasn't happy with the car as it was a pretty big deal and she didn't say anything. My sister in-law sat her down and had a big conversation about being grateful and how a free car at 16 is something she should be really happy about. At that point my niece said "But it's a piece of junk!" to which my sister in-law replied then it's not yours anymore and you can buy your own car. She called us and told us to give it to my brother. When I told him he was getting the car for free he freaked out and wouldn't stop saying thank you. It's not the ideal outcome, but it is what it is. Thanks for the advice reddit.
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